cajoled

/kəˈdʒoʊld/

VERB

1. Persuaded someone through flattery or gentle urging

Past tense and past participle of cajole; to have persuaded someone to do something they were reluctant to do, especially through flattery, pleasant words, or promises.

1.1. Gentle persuasion or coaxing

Persuaded someone to do something through patient, gentle, and persistent encouragement rather than force.

Synonyms

Antonyms

  • dissuaded
  • discouraged
  • deterred

Examples

  • She cajoled her friends into joining her on the road trip.
  • The children were cajoled into finishing their vegetables with the promise of dessert.

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1.2. Persuasion through flattery or sweet talk

Persuaded someone by using compliments, charming language, praise, or flattering promises to gain their cooperation.

Synonyms

  • flattered
  • blandished
  • sweet-talked
  • buttered up
  • charmed
  • adulated
  • soft-soaped

Antonyms

  • browbeat
  • bullied
  • intimidated
  • coerced
  • forced

Examples

  • He cajoled his parents into buying him a new video game by promising to improve his grades.
  • The manager cajoled her employees into working overtime with praise and promises.

Related Words

  • complimented
  • praised
  • wooed
  • ingratiated

1.3. Persuasion through enticement or manipulation

Persuaded someone by appealing to their desires, offering incentives, or using clever and sometimes misleading tactics.

Synonyms

Examples

  • She cajoled him into accepting the offer with promises of future benefits.
  • The salesman cajoled customers into buying products they had not intended to purchase.

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