cajolery
/kəˈdʒoʊləri/
NOUN
1. Flattery intended to persuade
The use of flattering words, pleasant language, or insincere praise to persuade someone or gain their cooperation.
1.1. Persuasion through flattery
The use of compliments, praise, or flattering remarks to influence someone and obtain their agreement or cooperation.
Synonyms
Antonyms
- criticism
- disapproval
- censure
Examples
- She used cajolery to persuade her colleagues to support the proposal.
- His cajolery was intended to win the manager's approval.
Related Words
- sycophancy
- ingratiation
- compliment
- praise
- obsequiousness
1.2. Gentle persuasion or coaxing
The act of persuading someone through persistent, gentle encouragement, appealing words, or promises rather than force.
Synonyms
- coaxing
- wheedling
- blandishment
- persuasion
- enticement
- inducement
- palaver
Antonyms
Examples
- The child eventually agreed after hours of cajolery.
- The negotiator relied on cajolery rather than threats to secure an agreement.
Related Words
- entreaty
- exhortation
- urging
- inveiglement
- cajolement
1.3. Deceptive or manipulative persuasion
The use of flattering or misleading words to deceive someone or persuade them to act against their better judgment.
Synonyms
Antonyms
- honesty
- candor
- straightforwardness
Examples
- The salesman used cajolery to conceal the product's shortcomings.
- She saw through his cajolery and refused to accept the misleading offer.